Why Your Mortgage Is Just One Piece of the Financial Puzzle
Are you only thinking about your mortgage when buying a home? You might be missing the full picture.
In the latest episode of The Lofty Lender, I sat down with financial strategist and mortgage pro Charlie Chedester to dive into one of the most overlooked aspects of home buying: why your mortgage is just one part of your overall financial situation. Whether you're a first-time buyer, move-up buyer, downsizer, or investor, this mindset shift could make or break your long-term wealth goals.
🧠 The Big Idea: Think Beyond the Mortgage
Most people call me and say, “Hey Kyle, I want to get pre-approved for a mortgage. What do I need to do?” But here’s the kicker — they're only thinking about the house, not the bigger picture: their monthly cash flow, credit card debt, emergency savings, retirement accounts, or even their lifestyle needs.
As Charlie puts it, “People compartmentalize their finances like it’s all in silos. But everything is connected — your mortgage, your budget, your debt, and your goals.”
🎯 Why This Matters More Than Ever
With interest rates slowly improving and inflation still climbing, it's more critical than ever to take a holistic financial approach to homeownership. From credit card debt and car loans to emergency funds and vacation goals, Charlie and I are on a mission to help people create a complete financial strategy — not just close a deal.
We’re not here to just sell you a mortgage. We’re here to help you thrive after you buy the house.
🏠 Real Talk: Mortgage Myths & Missed Opportunities
We shared a real-life story of a client who insisted on putting 20% down on an FHA loan — despite having other high-interest debt like boat loans, ATVs, and credit cards. The numbers didn't make sense, but the client was stuck on outdated advice. They ended up going with an online lender who “just did what they were told,” instead of providing guidance that would’ve saved them money and stress.
Bottom line? Sometimes it’s smarter to put down less and pay off toxic debt — even if that goes against what you’ve heard from Uncle Joe or TikTok.
🔁 It’s Not Just About Buying — It’s About Refinancing Too
Many homeowners are sitting on record-high equity while juggling record-high credit card debt. Refinancing or taking out a home equity line of credit (HELOC) could free up hundreds (even thousands) per month in cash flow. But most people don’t know who to call or how to evaluate their options.
That’s where Charlie and I come in. We’re not just loan officers — we’re your strategic financial partners. Even if we can't help you directly, we’ll point you to someone who can.
🚀 Take Action: 3 Simple Steps to Better Financial Decisions
Review Your Full Budget – Understand where your money is going and how it supports (or hinders) your goals.
Define Your Lifestyle Goals – Do you want to travel? Save aggressively? Retire early? Your mortgage should support your life, not control it.
Talk to Professionals Who See the Whole Picture – That means us, your CPA, your financial advisor, and other trusted experts. We’ll help you make strategic moves, not just transactions.
🎧 Listen & Learn More
This episode is packed with practical advice, mindset shifts, and real talk about debt, budgeting, and building long-term wealth — not just short-term approvals.
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Remember:
💬 “Just because you can buy at a certain price doesn’t mean you should.”
Let’s make a plan that leads to long-term success — not just getting in the door.
Until next time,
Kyle Guldenpfennig
#TallMoneyMan
Host of The Lofty Lender Podcast